February 3, 2026
MarketingOccasion Reminders: Make Automated Marketing Personal
A useful occasion reminder sounds like a florist who remembers, not a sale email. Here is what to record, when to write and how to judge the result.
A customer orders a £45 hand-tie for his mum's birthday on 18 April. Eleven months later, the order is still sitting in your records. If nobody looks at it, he may remember you after he has ordered elsewhere.
An occasion reminder brings that useful detail back at the right time. Done well, it feels like the service a regular customer gets at the counter. Done badly, it's another sales email with a first name pasted at the top.
Which Occasions Are Worth Remembering?
Start with dates that come up naturally while taking an order:
- birthdays
- wedding and relationship anniversaries
- recurring office flowers
- annual thank-you gifts
- the customer's previous Valentine's Day or Mother's Day order
Sympathy dates need more care. Some customers value a quiet reminder about memorial flowers. Others would find it intrusive. Don't add those reminders as a default. Record a clear request from the customer and keep the wording gentle.
The Details Behind a Useful Reminder
A date on its own produces a vague message. Keep the pieces that let the florist recognise the order:
- the customer's name and contact choice
- the recipient's first name
- the occasion and date
- the previous product and price
- useful preferences such as "no lilies"
Check the spelling while the customer is with you. "Mum's birthday" attached to the wrong recipient is worse than sending nothing.
The customer history in Digital Florists Orders keeps these details beside earlier orders. Digital Florists Notifications can then use them in the message.
If you're deciding what belongs in the customer record, our guide to personalisation in floristry starts with the details a florist already notices during an order.
How Would You Say It at the Counter?
A useful reminder names the moment and offers a clear next step:
Useful: "Hi Sarah, Emma's birthday is on 15 March. Would you like us to make something around the same £50 budget as last year?"
Not useful: "Birthday flowers on sale. Order today."
The first message helps Sarah remember and gives her an easy reply. It doesn't assume she wants the same flowers. The second could have come from any shop.
Keep the message short. One occasion, one previous detail and one next step are enough. A full list of everything the customer has bought feels uncomfortable.
Your Order Cut-Off Sets the Timing
There is no single perfect day for every florist. Work backwards from the time your shop needs:
- How far ahead do you order special stems?
- When do popular delivery slots fill?
- Does the customer need time to approve a corporate order?
- When does your peak range go on sale?
A local birthday hand-tie and 30 office arrangements shouldn't share the same lead time. Pick a sensible starting point for each type of order, then adjust it from real replies and orders.
Permission and a Clear Way to Stop
Ask customers if they want reminders and explain what you will send. Keep a record of that choice. Every marketing message needs a clear way to opt out, and the shop needs to honour it.
UK GDPR and electronic marketing rules depend on who you're contacting, the message and the permission you hold. Don't copy a legal basis from a blog post. Check the latest ICO guidance and take advice for your own setup if needed.
The Numbers That Matter
Track a small set of figures for each batch:
- how many reminders were sent
- how many people replied or clicked
- how many orders followed
- how many people opted out
Read the replies as well. "Thanks, I had forgotten" tells you the reminder was useful. A run of confused replies tells you the records or wording need work.
One Date Is Enough to Begin
Choose birthdays or anniversaries and collect clean details for a month. Send one small batch. Check every result before adding more occasions.
The value isn't the automation on its own. It's a florist remembering Emma, the £50 budget and the date, even when the regular member of staff is off that morning.
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Written by
Digital Florists Team
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